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Old 06-16-2006, 01:46 PM

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I just had a long talk with a friend of mine over aol. We got into this huge argument I didn't want to happen but it did. I was trying to be as calm and easy-going possible. He takes little things really hard. There were times I could have screamed at him but knew that wouldn't do anything but add more hatred. I am going to paste the conversation me and him had a few minutes ago. It's pretty long but please read through all of it.


guitarfreaklsd: hey hanso

guitarfreaklsd: wanna go bike riding?

guitarfreaklsd: or working out or something

guitarfreaklsd: its a nice day outside

CryBoy909indaatl: wait what?

guitarfreaklsd: guitarfreaklsd: hey hanso

guitarfreaklsd: wanna go bike riding?

guitarfreaklsd: or working out or something

guitarfreaklsd: its a nice day outside

CryBoy909indaatl: I don't know man. Didn't Grady ware you down last night ;-)

guitarfreaklsd: uhhh thats not the way i work

guitarfreaklsd: SEE HUMANS HAVE THIS THING CALLED SLEEP

guitarfreaklsd: IT REJUVENATES YOU

guitarfreaklsd: EVER HEARD ABOUT IT?

CryBoy909indaatl: yeah but I've been staying up til 3 everyday lol

CryBoy909indaatl: I thought you guys stayed up pretty late as well.

guitarfreaklsd: we stayed up that late

guitarfreaklsd: but this thing called sleep, rejuvinates you anyway
guitarfreaklsd: its pretty amazing

guitarfreaklsd: you should try it so you wont be so tired all the time

guitarfreaklsd: but how come you want to waste a day like this?

CryBoy909indaatl: I'm always like this lol

guitarfreaklsd: lets do something

guitarfreaklsd: or come swim at my pool or something

CryBoy909indaatl: I really just feel like staying home. I ate one too many pop-tarts this afternoon which is making me feel worse. The Georgia Tech baseball is on. I want to spend some time with my folks now. We'll have the whole summer to do anything you want.

CryBoy909indaatl: I planted some flowers near our mailbox.

CryBoy909indaatl: I guess I was destined to become a botanist.

CryBoy909indaatl: Hello?

guitarfreaklsd: hey sorry

guitarfreaklsd: i was eating

guitarfreaklsd: no you want

guitarfreaklsd: buddy

CryBoy909indaatl: what?

guitarfreaklsd: im leaving to fl with charlie next week

guitarfreaklsd: then when im coming back im going to
europe for the rest of the summer

guitarfreaklsd: so you basically wont have any day, because you will procrastinate every other time i ask you to do something

CryBoy909indaatl: It's not procrastination man.

guitarfreaklsd: yes it is

guitarfreaklsd: i swear

CryBoy909indaatl: I've actually get pretty busy for the past few days,

guitarfreaklsd: i bet you

guitarfreaklsd: every time

guitarfreaklsd: you say the same thing

guitarfreaklsd: you really do

guitarfreaklsd: im just telling you for a fact

guitarfreaklsd: you always say today is not the day eman
guitarfreaklsd: lol

CryBoy909indaatl: Why didn't you ask me when I came over? I had to do a but load of yardwork after I dropped Grady off and wore myself out watering plants. I'm sorry we don't hang out a lot like we used to.

guitarfreaklsd: well i dont care about that

guitarfreaklsd: because i know you wouldnt want to do anything

guitarfreaklsd: but its ok

CryBoy909indaatl: You don't care about what?

guitarfreaklsd: I'm sorry we don't hang out a lot like we used to.

guitarfreaklsd: we never did hang out a lot

CryBoy909indaatl: Are you kidding?

guitarfreaklsd: it was mostly me and grady, but im doin you a favor by getting some excersize

guitarfreaklsd: im serious

guitarfreaklsd: we never hung out because you never wanted to do anything

guitarfreaklsd: and when we did it was when i came to see grady

guitarfreaklsd: we hang out like 5 times a year

CryBoy909indaatl: During the school year I spend my saturday's at your place. Week after week I came over. We would play World of Warcraft til 2 in the morning, I take you places to eat, take the dog out and you're telling me we don't hang out?

guitarfreaklsd: oh bullcrap

guitarfreaklsd: you came to my house one time to see wow

guitarfreaklsd: lol

guitarfreaklsd: dude that was grady

guitarfreaklsd: not you

guitarfreaklsd: but its ok as i said

CryBoy909indaatl: What are you talking about man?

guitarfreaklsd: we never hung out literally

CryBoy909indaatl: I took you places

guitarfreaklsd: only at your place

guitarfreaklsd: sometimes

guitarfreaklsd: if you felt like it

CryBoy909indaatl: Sometimes?

guitarfreaklsd: yes

CryBoy909indaatl: I was doing you a favor.

guitarfreaklsd: yeah well it was a few favors

guitarfreaklsd: you only came to my house sometimes

guitarfreaklsd: like every other month

guitarfreaklsd: you probably remember driving grady to here

CryBoy909indaatl: Was I supposed to have a set number of times taking you out to eat? This was something from my own time and money I put into you. All you can do is complain?!

guitarfreaklsd: but when we did hang out was when i was at yhour house

guitarfreaklsd: hahaha

guitarfreaklsd: yeah funny dude

CryBoy909indaatl: okay I'm tired of this.

guitarfreaklsd: yeah

CryBoy909indaatl: I'm sorry people have their own agenda's and everything can't wort exactly with you.

guitarfreaklsd: i was just asking if you wanted to work out

guitarfreaklsd: your funny hansell, this is a long time ive asked you to do something

guitarfreaklsd: i thought youd be happy to actually do something witha friend

CryBoy909indaatl: You got me at a bad time.

guitarfreaklsd: and you didnt even invite me to the country club lol

CryBoy909indaatl: All I can speak in the truth.

guitarfreaklsd: i mean im not saying you had to

CryBoy909indaatl: Did you want to?

guitarfreaklsd: well ive known you since 6th grade

CryBoy909indaatl: I can't take you everywhere. And when I do it means nothing to you.

guitarfreaklsd: thats not true

guitarfreaklsd: i thank you every time i get out of the car

CryBoy909indaatl: That's not my point.

guitarfreaklsd: even you're dad

guitarfreaklsd: yes it is

CryBoy909indaatl: You said "sometime" I take you places. Atleast I'm doing something with you. Spending my own money into YOU.

guitarfreaklsd: yes you do sometimes

guitarfreaklsd: yeah but i pay you back, most of the time i have my own money

CryBoy909indaatl: ight

CryBoy909indaatl: I'm off.

guitarfreaklsd: such as willys

CryBoy909indaatl: Have a good afternoon

Did I handle the situation the right way?

Regards-

Covelton

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Old 06-16-2006, 03:37 PM

Re: I need some advice

You might not want to post people's AIM names publicly, press edit and fix it if you want.

Also uh... Either that is your girlfriend or a really close guy or you are gay? Sorry that's how the conversation looked...

What you should do is make a time and day and say ok we do some shit then or something. This way you avoid that?
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Old 06-16-2006, 03:44 PM

He is a friend of mine. I am not gay.

He just always complains about I never spend time at his house. And when I do come over, all he does is sits at his computer playing World of Warcraft. I just sit there and do nothing because computer is the only thing to do at his house.

blah

Atleast I finally got my signature to work.

Pat's advice was pretty easy to follow.
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Old 06-16-2006, 04:17 PM

Re: I need some advice

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Atleast I finally got my signature to work.

Pat's advice was pretty easy to follow.
well I can't see it
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Old 06-16-2006, 05:25 PM

Re: I need some advice

When you want to add onto your post, use the edit button

Anyway your friend is like mine, calls me up says lets do something I come over he plops on his games and I run off and make out with his sister.

guess it works out somehow, anyway I just yell at him he yells at me then we just sit there and figure something out.

He likes to fight a lot.*
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Old 06-16-2006, 07:46 PM

Re: I need some advice

meh, Svete can be a dumbass at times anyways.
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Old 06-16-2006, 07:59 PM

Re: I need some advice

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He is a friend of mine. I am not gay.

He just always complains about I never spend time at his house. And when I do come over, all he does is sits at his computer playing World of Warcraft. I just sit there and do nothing because computer is the only thing to do at his house.

blah

Atleast I finally got my signature to work.

Pat's advice was pretty easy to follow.
Ditto my best friend don't do shit anymore but WOW. It sucks. It claimed my brother and my best friend.

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Old 06-16-2006, 08:01 PM

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Ditto my best friend don't do shit anymore but WOW. It sucks.
sounds like me sometimes
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Old 06-16-2006, 09:02 PM

Re: I need some advice

Bit, how do you know who he is?
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Old 06-16-2006, 10:56 PM

Re: I need some advice

Because him and your brother are gay lovers.
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Old 06-17-2006, 07:59 AM

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Bit, how do you know who he is?

I talk to him online? He doesn't know about this site, I'm almost sure. But one thing: He won't stop asking me where I live in Florida, since he's coming down here. He wants to stalk me.


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Old 06-17-2006, 09:04 AM

Re: I need some advice

So where is shady Grady. ;[
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Old 06-17-2006, 09:17 AM

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So where is shady Grady. ;[
ya 4 real mayn.
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Old 06-17-2006, 09:39 AM

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So where is shady Grady. ;[

I dunno meself either. I talked to him two days ago on AIM, not since then. I remember him saying that Emanuel (the guy this thread is about) is bugging him each day to come over, so he wouldn't be able to talk to me (this was in one of his homosexual moments). But muzikaddict's back, so it's a fair trade-off.


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Old 06-17-2006, 04:34 PM

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He just always complains about I never spend time at his house. And when I do come over, all he does is sits at his computer playing World of Warcraft. I just sit there and do nothing because computer is the only thing to do at his house.
YO! you ain't seen nothing. here's what we usually do:

1. HEY GRADY LAWLAWL. let me show you my new guitar solo and metal song I downloaded.
2. look, I got my character to level 40 and got Mail (male?) armor. fucking incredible.
3. we gotta take Lucky for a walk
4. pizza's here! I said we were having coke too, but we get to have this delicious green tea. way better.
5. arduous discussion on europe's well-being over america's culture.
6. more WoW
7. go to the pool, a lot of people nearby/watching from apartments, so we can't be loud and stuff.
8. go back inside, tolerate his guitaring which he finds funny to blare out of his amp. (stunning guitar talent, but his amp is almost taller than me)
9. watch a movie, usually my choice. he says he likes it but I know he doesn't.
10. have an argument about sleep. talk about me knowing a fair bit more about sleep than he does, him claiming he saw shit on CNN. me telling him some stuff I know, him shutting up.
11. him still complaining that I stay up too late.
12. I go to sleep, the stain-age ceases
13. wake up at about 12, with you honking outside his apartment. me getting socks and stuff on and making sure I have clothes on.
14. walk out to your car, get home. do yardwork or go to whatever dad says we have to do. this doesn't really have to do with emanuel's house, but I thought I'd mention it.


P.S. - mom still hasn't picked up Doje.
Post Script 2 - sam is much more bearable than emanuel. I haven't known him as long, but still.

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Old 06-17-2006, 05:36 PM

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Thanks for the feedback everyone. I guess that's all I really needed. I'm glad I joined here. I knew there wasn't going to be some 12 year old kids on here bossing me around and more clear supportive ideas.

How is everyone's weekend going so far?
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Old 06-17-2006, 05:57 PM

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Does he still complain about you not spending as much time as you used to, doctor ?



Because having to cover your back and defending you got really annoying.


EDIT: My weekend's great. Besides the driver's ed classes from monday to friday, where I have to wake up by 1, and it being constantly over 95º in Florida, I like it. I bought the graphic novel of Watchmen today, and also a volume of the manga Death Note (both of which Grady's read at some point). And I'm totally all WOAH, since it's been almost a year since I actually bought a comic book, or anything of the sort (including games, where I just return shitty ones parents or "santa" give me, for better ones).


LAST EDIT: Eman's still cooler than Evan.
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Old 06-17-2006, 08:56 PM

Re: I need some advice

I have been driving since last August.

What cars are you thinking about buying?
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Old 06-17-2006, 09:33 PM

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I hate weekends, I work fucking weekends. Your friend sounds like a bad girlfriend I'd want to kill over and over.

I hate women.*
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Old 06-17-2006, 10:33 PM

Re: I need some advice

...he's a gauy?

GUY.

Not gay.... I don't think... :\



I plan on getting my mom's Xterra (not even sure if that's how it's spelled). I turned 15 in January, but just got my permit last week. Yay.



(doctor, you'll know why I am so un-excited...)
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Old 06-17-2006, 11:00 PM

Re: I need some advice

Siblings talking over a message board in the same house is where its at.
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Old 06-18-2006, 10:22 AM

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I have been driving since last August.

What cars are you thinking about buying?
my grandfather just bought me a saturn... are they any good?
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Old 06-18-2006, 10:53 AM

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my grandfather just bought me a saturn... are they any good?
No.


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Old 06-18-2006, 06:22 PM

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No.


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perfect, I wanted the mitsubishi.... but a cars a car.
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Old 06-19-2006, 05:32 PM

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Oh my god, I just realized I get my permit next year.


Holy shit, I'm hyperventalating with joy.


Pure rapturous JOY.
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